Thursday, March 19, 2020

Viral thoughts

Three weeks ago I had planned a three-day trip to visit grandkids in Spokane. Looking at the news coming from China a week later, I canceled my airbnb and my Southwestern flight. Good thing, too. The grandkids and their family are working long, long days in the Grocery Outlet they own. I told the grandkids' mom I'd be glad to come and help in their store, but I was an "elderly".

It seems very weird to be an elderly in these times. I feel some gratitude that the whole world is shutting down for the sake of keeping us older people alive. Like we're all in this together. Finally. I hear some younger people are protesting. I might have felt the same way when I was their age.

I see signs of a crisis bringing out the best in us. Young people volunteering to run errands for older people. Churches going online for their services. Facebook connections revitalized as we check in on each other. Donations and grants from the large and small. 

I have a sister and two sons who are nurses in the Pacific Northwest. I know they signed up for this kind of crisis when they graduated from nursing school. They are the heroes right now. My sister told me this morning that she will flog me if I touch anything when I go for my walk. I believe her!

Other heroes? All the people who are still working but not from home. All the people working from home, surrounded by their out-of-school kids.

Today I offered a squirt of hand sanitizer to the Amazon delivery driver, and he thanked me.

I live in Tucson right now, and so far there are relatively few cases. Give it a few more days, I'm thinking. My husband has always been a quantity shopper, and right now I'm profoundly grateful for that. 

Our Washington house is about eight miles for the nursing home in Kirkland that's been in the news. I was there a couple of years ago visiting a friend. Five of our kids live in the area. So far they are all okay.

We have a European bike-and-barge trip paid for in May. Guess what? Right now that seems pretty unimportant. 

My calendar is almost completely empty and I am okay with that.

In a way, this time feels like when we were volunteering in a refugee camp. Everyone there was living with unknowns, trying to stay safe, trying to keep their children safe. So much uncertainty. So dependent on the generosity of others. 

So here we are, living with unknowns. Let us be community.


Olga said...

If we cannot start pulling together in these times, we really are doomed as a species.

Starting Over, Accepting Changes - Maybe said...

I wish we did not have to go through all this pan and sorrow so the world can reset itself. Those who make it out of this will see a very different way of life and maybe one where people will be kinder to each other.

Please thank your family for being on the front lines and may they be safe and blessed.

DJan said...

It is true that those heroes on the front lines need to be appreciated for the work they do. I truly hope we will get through this and be a better world because of it. Thank you for this uplifting post, Linda. :-)

Elizabeth said...

Yes medical staff are heros. Unfortunately Australia (like the US and UK) has leaders who have been untrustworthy in the past, so people don't trust them now which makes it more difficult to manage. Young folk think they won't be affected - they are in for a surprise. Take care (and follow sister's instructions!)

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